trying to heal
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trying to heal
i'd like to share something i'm very sensitive about in an attempt to heal from it. i'd like to ask that if ur under 18 to please not read, and i'll add a trigger warning for sexual assault
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I’m very sorry that this happened to you. You mentioned a couple times you think you were targeted because you looked weak. But you should know that this isn’t a reflection of you, but of your abuser. It’s 100% not your fault, and I think that you aren’t weak at all, but quite strong. I’m always here for support if you ever need to talk about this more. I wish you the best in this healing journey <3
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I wish I could be your real life mommy right now and give you a huge hug. I wish I could take this pain away for you. Today we have a internet mommy/daughter day with movie and popcorn and snuggles.
I am glad you're talking about now and getting some real support.
Love you toooootzzies
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I love you
You're being an unacceptable level of stupid, with zero sexy, and no sense of humor.
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I’m mortified that happened to you. To echo splints, this experience doesn’t mean you are weak and even now you are so strong for sharing. I’m sorry you’ve been holding on to this for so long.
I hope you have a confidant and/or therapist who can also hear this in person to help guide you through the stages of healing for this.
I hope you have a confidant and/or therapist who can also hear this in person to help guide you through the stages of healing for this.
When I die, I want to go peacefully in my sleep like my grandfather;
not screaming like the people in his car
not screaming like the people in his car
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i live in a small "rural" town with no therapists so i dont have one, the stigma surrounding this is huge here anyway and i'd be scared to go to one. most of the people in my environment don't know the difference between a psychologist and a psychiatrist, if you told them "i go to a therapist" they'd likely think you are clinically crazy and need medication and maybe go to an asylum in a straight jacket. therapy being normalized is more so a western thing, it still exists to some extent to the east, but its mostly a western concept. its cool though, i have the internet to research on what to do myself
i appreciate everyone else's posts too, i just only responded to this one because i wanted to share my piece about cultural differences. i dont hold any emotional attachment to this difference, im at peace with it, was just sharing info to satisfy curiosity
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i wish you a pain free healing journey, tutuu. it has ups and downs, days where you feel like you've moved on and overcome it and days where it hinders you useless. those days don't define us, but just know that the journey to healing isn't meant to be mess free and fast. it could take as long as it takes, just as long as you're on that journey is all that matters and you are.
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thank u dododunya wrote: ↑Sat May 27, 2023 12:30 pm i wish you a pain free healing journey, tutuu. it has ups and downs, days where you feel like you've moved on and overcome it and days where it hinders you useless. those days don't define us, but just know that the journey to healing isn't meant to be mess free and fast. it could take as long as it takes, just as long as you're on that journey is all that matters and you are.
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Idk if sharing is helping you, but I hope so
Just from experience I've tried a lot, and this step takes some courage. Physical pain sucks, but really nothing else in this world hurts more than memories.
As a kid, I had to endure somethings that hurt in the moment, but the memories have always been the worst part for me.
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Live a good life, trust me I know it ain't easy.
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thank u doodooDaughterOfOmega wrote: ↑Sun May 28, 2023 9:13 pmIdk if sharing is helping you, but I hope so
Just from experience I've tried a lot, and this step takes some courage. Physical pain sucks, but really nothing else in this world hurts more than memories.
As a kid, I had to endure somethings that hurt in the moment, but the memories have always been the worst part for me.Many people don't consider me a friend or anything, but I've always been pretty fond of you @tutuu► Show Spoiler
Live a good life, trust me I know it ain't easy.
and thank u syn fs kate porscha scotty (i thanked u earlier too but i feel bad to not mention your names individually too now)