post title: why the extremely towny and cute lemon scumreads Scotty the scummy (read accuracy not guaranteed)
started with this post:
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 12:11 am
Dennis wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 12:02 am
Scotty wrote: ↑Thu Jun 01, 2023 11:57 pm
Dennis wrote: ↑Thu Jun 01, 2023 11:54 pm
Scotty wrote: ↑Thu Jun 01, 2023 11:49 pm
[VOTE:
Dennis] aubergine
Because I just became privvy to the implication of his name spelled backwards
Seems Ytliug
Certified yttocS moment
So can you give me a bit more than that
Sure:
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English I Honors
14 April 2023
Avoiding Responsibility for Your Actions
It happens more often than not for one to blame others if they only look on the surface. People would rather not be held accountable for their actions and instead point the finger at whoever seems the most obvious. However, one must look deeper and think critically to decide where to place blame. This is put on display in Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare. The tragedy of Romeo and Juliet often gets blamed on Friar Laurence and Juliet’s nurse because of their secrecy and handling of the situation. One could claim the friar or the nurse should have told the Lords of the plans or refused to help Romeo and Juliet outright. However, there were hidden risks and dangers to each option. Friar Laurence and Juliet’s nurse prove through the play that they are acting according to their judgment, not just whatever Romeo or Juliet demands, and are not responsible for the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet.
In the play, Friar Laurence gives Juliet a potion to make her appear dead for several days as a part of a plan to reunite her with her husband (Shakespeare 4.1.89-120). There are multiple seemingly risky and dangerous plans used by Friar Laurence and Juliet’s nurse, but there is always more to them than meets the eye. Friar Laurence’s poison plan, for example, was not on a whim. The friar is a master at herbology and knows many different uses for herbs. It would be irresponsible and deadly to attempt this plan without his knowledge. He is clearly putting thought, and his own skills, into aiding Juliet, while avoiding certain failure. But, this play would not be a tragedy if something didn’t go wrong. Friar Laurence’s message to Romeo in Mantua doesn’t get through, as all friars are being quarantined because of a breakout of the plague (5.2.10-11). It is unjust to blame Friar Laurence for this wicked twist of fate. Every part of his plan was crucial and meticulous--if everything went smoothly, it would have worked. A breakout of the plague could not have even been predicted by doctors during this time period, much less a friar. One cannot blame Friar Laurence for losing control of his plan. But the friar is not the only person who people claim should have taken a different course of action. At multiple points in the play, Juliet’s nurse has the opportunity to bring up Romeo and Juliet’s marriage to Lord and Lady Capulet, but she doesn’t. One might say she carries some blame for keeping it a secret. However, Lord Capulet displays very violent tendencies, especially regarding Juliet and her marriage, and Lady Capulet sides with him (3.5). The nurse cannot safely let anyone know about the marriage without putting her and Juliet’s safety at risk. She is forced into a very troubling situation where she doesn’t want to have to keep this secret but cannot. Both the nurse and Friar Laurence were trying to help, but one may argue they should not have even tolerated the relationship between the two.
Romeo and Juliet’s forbidden love is the driving factor of the play, forcing everyone involved to be secretive and hide things to avoid the Lords becoming furious. But would it have been a happier ending if the nurse or Friar Laurence had refused to help? Juliet was receiving constant pressure from her parents to marry Paris (1.3.60-66), but Juliet says she would rather “bid me go into a new-made grave” than marry him (4.1.84). The Nurse is aware of Juliet’s feelings, but she cannot take either side. On one side, she wants to side with Juliet. Juliet and her nurse have always been very close, and so it is natural that she wouldn’t want to see Juliet married miserably. On the other, this is a time period where it is considered proper for children, especially unmarried girls, to always respect and obey their parents. Zhao Ban, a philosopher and generally considered the first female Chinese historian wrote in her article “On Reverence for Parents” that “Girls not yet gone out from their homes / Must carefully reverence their parents” (1-2). It goes against the nurse’s core values to help Juliet disobey the Capulets. The nurse is trapped in a moral dilemma where she must make a decision or else Juliet would be trapped by her parents into an unhappy marriage, but must be careful with her actions or else she could get in serious trouble with the Capulet family. Friar Laurence plays a pivotal role in Romeo and Juliet’s blossoming relationship. He agrees to marry the two the same day he learns that Romeo has met Juliet and moved on from Rosaline. On the surface, this is a ridiculous idea. However, when one considers that Friar Laurence married them not to appease Romeo, but instead to resolve the conflict between the Capulets and Monagues, the situation gets complicated (Shakespeare 2.3.88-92). Friar Laurence refuses at first, saying Romeo is only attracted to Juliet’s body and is moving much too fast (2.3.65-80). Romeo proves himself to be very emotionally volatile, going from moping about Rosaline (1.1.222-230) to being enamored of Juliet in the same day. Friar Laurence could not have been able to accurately predict Romeo’s reaction. In addition, the marriage is not just because Friar Laurence doesn’t see harm in it--he advises Romeo to slow down and think. The reason he follows through is because of the constant fights breaking out between the Capulets and Montagues. He sees this as a way to “turn your households’ rancor to pure love” (2.3.92). If this marriage works, it will prove that the houses have no real reason to fight, and the citizens of Verona will not have to live in fear of fights breaking out. It’s even possible the Friar actually sees himself as the hero, putting an end to the violence. If he refused, he would both have to deal with whatever Romeo’s reaction was and potentially live with the guilt of every innocent person slain in the subsequent fights. The reaction of the two children is a major driving factor as well. Both Romeo and Juliet threaten to kill themselves at multiple points in the play. Romeo, when he learns he is banished from Verona (3.3.105-109) and Juliet claims she would if all other plans to reunite with Romeo failed (3.5.244). These two children, clearly emotionally unstable and a lot of stress, put the nurse and Friar Laurence in a very tough position. If at any point things did not work out for them, they would kill themselves and their blood would be on the hands of the adults. It was nearly impossible for the adults to simply do nothing. The consequences of the rash behavior of the children ended up being the nurse and Friar Laurence’s responsibility, and they acted the best they could in that terrible situation.
Romeo and Juliet are rash and irresponsible, forcing themselves into very adult situations and then begging for aid, so far as to threaten killing themselves if the adults don’t help. Friar Laurence and the nurse, being thrusted into this position, make attempts to rationalize with the children before they try their more unorthodox plans. The nurse at first goes along with what Juliet wishes, but after Romeo is banished, she thinks about what to do and suggests Juliet just marry Paris and forget about Romeo (3.5.216-226). The nurse believes that this has gone too far and that Juliet should just follow her parent’s advice. Despite her constant complaints, the chances that Juliet would fall in love with Paris in an arranged marriage are higher than they seemed. According to “Would You Marry a Stranger?” by Jessica McBirney, arranged marriages are not all terrible. In fact, there is data that “those in arranged marriages generally enjoy happier lives and lower divorce rates” (2). The whole situation caused more problems for everyone than it solved, and Juliet is arguably being selfish. By refusing to try and move on and shame everyone around her into helping her, she manipulates the situation into exactly what she wants, and refuses the nurse’s attempts to make her reconsider Paris, or even just move on from Romeo. Friar Laurence had the almost exact opposite problem with Romeo. The friar was disappointed to hear how quickly Romeo moved on from Rosaline and advises that Romeo think about his decision more (Shakespeare 2.3.74-78). Romeo characteristically refuses to reconsider and begs until Friar Laurence gives in. It’s almost as if he doesn’t want help, he just wants what will make him happiest and doesn’t consider the consequences of his actions or the advice the friar gives. While Friar Laurence stands stronger on his position than the nurse did, he eventually caves as well and marries Romeo and Juliet. This could be seen as the initial conflict that starts the path to the tragedy, but truly the blame lies in Romeo and Juliet manipulating the adults around them. They are irresponsible and manipulative, threatening to kill themselves and leave the guilt of their deaths in the hearts of the adults unless everything goes their way. It eventually becomes clear that the only people who can truly be blamed for the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet is Romeo and Juliet themselves.
Juliet’s nurse and Friar Laurence tried their best, in a situation where they were being manipulated and had to be very careful with their actions, to aid Romeo and Juliet. The scholars that argue Friar Laurence and the nurse are responsible must reconsider and recognize the emotional struggle Romeo and Juliet put on them. It is important to think critically, from an unbiased perspective about situations before one places blame. We have all been in arguments or situations where taking the blame is unfavorable and attempt to place the blame on someone else. It’s hard to reconcile with guilt, and it’s okay to feel these things. But when someone else takes the fall for one, one carries the same, if not more responsibility than before.
Works Cited
“On Reverence for Parents”, Zhao Ban, c, 4.-120. Commonlit.
Shakespeare, William. Romeo and Juliet. Literatur, Grade 9, edited by Janet Allen, McDougal Littell, 2008, 940-1050.
This essay obviously has nothing to do with me and it's kind of unnerving you don't want to give a serious answer, especially because you just pushed me to top wagon
That’s fair. There’s no substance behind my vote.
I think I’ll feel bad if you were an actual wagon for no reason; as it stands with 2 votes, you’re more like a tricycle on a gentle slope
which I found a bit placating (mostly for the second part, which imo doesn't really need to be there)
but I didn't stare at it too much because it's fair to say Scotty's Dennis vote was just an unsubstantiated vote and although the second part might not be what I would say, maybe it's normal for Scotty
added this post in hindsight after Porscha kill:
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 1:20 am
Porscha town
That’s all I know in this crazy world
this is the point where Scotty shifts from voting Quin to trying to get people off:
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:30 pm
Quin wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:29 pm
[VOTE:
scotty] aubergine
Towny vote
He has no impetus to start a wagon on me as wolf imo
Don’t lynch quin
and it's fine
(aside from the basic "not wanting to end up on the wagon that flips" thing which is imo too vague to bring up as a reason but I'm putting it here anyway)
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:31 pm
[VOTE:
Dennis] aubergine
idk this was kind of weird
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:31 pm
My vote is fluid. Where should I go fam
probably not wanting to stay on Dennis
only problem with this is how Scotty is talking to thread so it reads as a bit performative to me (ik I'm being a bit picky with this)
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:35 pm
Kate wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:35 pm
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:31 pm
My vote is fluid. Where should I go fam
Creature or genny?
Honoring quin and not going creature
[VOTE:
genny] aubergine
this pinged me so hard lol
didn't feel the need to point it out at the time because Quin already did
it's mostly the "honoring quin" part, which reads to me like Scotty thinks Quin flipping is already set and has TMI that Quin will flip town
and it brought back my initial "hmm" at Scotty moving off Quin, which I ignored the first time (because it wasn't concerning by itself but it now becomes a concern with this post)
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:38 pm
Like my d1 reads are generally Jackson Pollack paintings. But I feel confident Quin is town. Let’s get off him
the confidence level doesn't feel real
Aro reminded me to be careful not to over-project confidence when it would be weird for town to be that confident in my recent scumgame and now I'm using it to hunt
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:42 pm
Lemonfairy wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:41 pm
[VOTE:
Scotty] aubergine
Unlike quin, I think this vote sucks
this was just uncalled for smh
(it's not a reason, I just felt a bit attacked by this)
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:43 pm
Like, do y’all not see what I’m seeing with quin?
And if you think quin is good, why am I as wolf trying to pull off him? TMI? I just sit back and let it happen
here!
I didn't remember wrongly!
@Dubz this is what I'm referring to when I said it looked like Scotty knew moving around would make them look towny so it felt more like it was performative rather that indecisivess/waffling
the "why am I as wolf trying to pull off him? TMI? I just sit back and let it happen"
first part is fine, second part is LAMIST and imo shows a disproportionate degree of concern over being scumread (Scotty only had Quin and me voting them at the time and no one else really was scumreading them iirc)
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:45 pm
Quin wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:43 pm
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:40 pm
Quin wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:38 pm
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:35 pm
Kate wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:35 pm
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:31 pm
My vote is fluid. Where should I go fam
Creature or genny?
Honoring quin and not going creature
[VOTE:
genny] aubergine
why are you honoring me specifically? i'm no less likely to self-pres if you 'honored' someone elses suspects.
Why do you suspect me?
buddying/distancing with dennis, but most recently i think your reaction to my most recent posts have been inauthentic.
oh, I thought that was obvious. You are the leading wagon and your random vote for me DOESNT come from wolf imo.
Ergo, im following you
Also haven’t caught up
yeah again, just the confidence level doesn't really match up to this reason, which imo is kind of lacking in comparison
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:46 pm
Thunal tying it up for creature/genny, eh?
Just noting
not relevant to this post
but noted for whatever Thunal flips in the future
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:47 pm
Lemonfairy wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:46 pm
what if
someone else votes Scotty and then we let it rand
That’s…
Actually a terrible idea
Like, how does that help a solve?
Either vote me in confidence or get the hell off me
this is another post that I think shows almost too much concern over getting scumread/voted
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:49 pm
Currently letting it rand on genny/creature also isn’t ideal.
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:51 pm
Guys genny only has 4 posts?
Really, are we doing this? That seems lame
[VOTE:
Kate] aubergine
not wanting a rand on genny/creature
then saying genny vote is lame but not voting creature (bringing up not wanting to be on the wagon that flips again)
kate vote is just weird either way
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:52 pm
No, I want Seanzie around too
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:52 pm
For personal reasons
hmmm
(just another "wait and see" post)
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:55 pm
[VOTE:
Creature] aubergine
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:55 pm
Kate wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:54 pm
[VOTE:
creature] aubergineI'm moving to creature
oh shoot
I don’t like this
tbf, this kind of aligns with previous vote on kate
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:56 pm
[VOTE:
Dennis] aubergine
no idea what is happening atp
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:58 pm
[VOTE:
Seanzie] aubergine
Scotty wrote: ↑Fri Jun 02, 2023 6:59 pm
Seanzie could be a hit
Scotty/Seanzie if that's a thing
ok I'm done