Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Game Over]
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
[mention]speedchuck[/mention] have you been misdirected on any of the nights that gwil was misdirected
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
Nothing, but i was hesitant to vote ID because I didn't like his fellow voters. I feel better about two of them so the train isn't as scary.speedchuck wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:53 pmWhat does that have to do with Kenway?colonialbob wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:52 pm Ok I'm feeling better on kites/gwil so I'm leaning towards voting ID actually.
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
This is not what you said earliercolonialbob wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:54 pmNothing, but i was hesitant to vote ID because I didn't like his fellow voters. I feel better about two of them so the train isn't as scary.speedchuck wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:53 pmWhat does that have to do with Kenway?colonialbob wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:52 pm Ok I'm feeling better on kites/gwil so I'm leaning towards voting ID actually.
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
Well that's it.
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
I don't think I've been misdirected at all, unless you count the Lapluie thing
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
I'm suddenly very uncomfortable with cbob
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
My feelings on ID are not linked with my feelings on Kenway. I still think Kenway is likely bad. But nobody seemed to be going for the Kenway lynch and I don't want vote shenanigans to screw us again.speedchuck wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:55 pmThis is not what you said earliercolonialbob wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:54 pmNothing, but i was hesitant to vote ID because I didn't like his fellow voters. I feel better about two of them so the train isn't as scary.speedchuck wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:53 pmWhat does that have to do with Kenway?colonialbob wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:52 pm Ok I'm feeling better on kites/gwil so I'm leaning towards voting ID actually.
I was worried about switching to ID because I was suspicious of Kites/gwil. But the point about the PM made me feel less like I was jumping on a mafia train, helping make my mind up about switching.
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
Meh I feel like I've been trying to drive conversation all day. If I'm mafia I just let town apathy carry us to the win. Meta, but

Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
So apparently I missed the pill sorry about that I thought the day ended at 455, I'd have voted for id as well.




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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
[mention]Kenway[/mention] plz meet me after hours in the classroom, there's something we must do
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
also i made a really funny joke in btsc 2 days ago and you haven't laughed at it or even looked at it so and honestly i'm just feeling so attacked right now :^/
Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
This is why we should lynch Kenway no reason for a civ not to make use of BTSC.




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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
Tell us the joke and we will gauge Kenway's scumminess ourselves
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
i can't do that
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
if i reveal the secrets of my arcane humor to the public then kenway will have less incentive to come hang out with me in our secret mage tree house
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
Fire Emblem Day 8
Warf lay in bed, unable to sleep. Probably something to do with the two ton suit of armor he was wearing.
A creek at the door was all that announced the spy’s arrival.
“Hey Dunya. What are you doing here so late? Wouldn’t want Empesee to get jealous.”
The blue hair woman didn’t so much as crack a smile. “Jealousy’s the least of your worries. I know who you are.”
“Of course you...wait a minute. You don’t think I was one of the ones that got replaced do you?”
Dunya didn’t say a word.
“So that’s how it is?” The knight looked genuinely hurt. “I guess I should leave now while I have the chance, then. If even you don’t trust me...”
“You’re not going anywhere, scummer.”
Warf picked up his lance. It was about the same size as the spy. “Please. My defense is off the charts and you barely have a strength stat. It’s not a very even matchup.”
“That’s why I brought a friend to tip the scales. Kenway?”
The banana looking mage stepped into the room. “I’ll do my best,” he said with a sweet smile before burning the knight to a crisp.
Iron Dwarf has been lynched again. He was Thumb, a good man on the wrong side. (Mafia)
Warf lay in bed, unable to sleep. Probably something to do with the two ton suit of armor he was wearing.
A creek at the door was all that announced the spy’s arrival.
“Hey Dunya. What are you doing here so late? Wouldn’t want Empesee to get jealous.”
The blue hair woman didn’t so much as crack a smile. “Jealousy’s the least of your worries. I know who you are.”
“Of course you...wait a minute. You don’t think I was one of the ones that got replaced do you?”
Dunya didn’t say a word.
“So that’s how it is?” The knight looked genuinely hurt. “I guess I should leave now while I have the chance, then. If even you don’t trust me...”
“You’re not going anywhere, scummer.”
Warf picked up his lance. It was about the same size as the spy. “Please. My defense is off the charts and you barely have a strength stat. It’s not a very even matchup.”
“That’s why I brought a friend to tip the scales. Kenway?”
The banana looking mage stepped into the room. “I’ll do my best,” he said with a sweet smile before burning the knight to a crisp.
Iron Dwarf has been lynched again. He was Thumb, a good man on the wrong side. (Mafia)
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Re: Fire Emblem Polls
Who killed Princess Epi?
Poll ended at Sun Mar 11, 2018 1:55 pm
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rundontwalk
0
No votes
Voters: None
Speedchuck (formerly Dunya)
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No votes
Voters: None
Kenway
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5%
Voters: Iron_Dwarf
Kylemii
0
No votes
Voters: None
gwilikers6
0
No votes
Voters: None
nutella
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No votes
Voters: None
colonialbob
0
No votes
Voters: None
Iron_Dwarf
6
32%
Voters: nutella, Kylemii, gwilikers6, speedchuck, Kites, colonialbob
sprityo
0
No votes
Voters: None
Sig
1
5%
Voters: Kenway
Kites
0
No votes
Voters: None
Thumb! I was paying attention! (host/dead/non) Day ends at poll end. Don't forget to post your votes to the thread or you'll be arrested too.
11
58%
Voters: dunya, lapluie, TonyStarkPrime, Epignosis, MacDougall, sprityo, Dragon D. Luffy, Scotty, JaggedJimmyJay, Jackofhearts2005, insertnamehere
Total votes: 19
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rundontwalk
0
No votes
Voters: None
Speedchuck (formerly Dunya)
0
No votes
Voters: None
Kenway
1
5%
Voters: Iron_Dwarf
Kylemii
0
No votes
Voters: None
gwilikers6
0
No votes
Voters: None
nutella
0
No votes
Voters: None
colonialbob
0
No votes
Voters: None
Iron_Dwarf
6
32%
Voters: nutella, Kylemii, gwilikers6, speedchuck, Kites, colonialbob
sprityo
0
No votes
Voters: None
Sig
1
5%
Voters: Kenway
Kites
0
No votes
Voters: None
Thumb! I was paying attention! (host/dead/non) Day ends at poll end. Don't forget to post your votes to the thread or you'll be arrested too.
11
58%
Voters: dunya, lapluie, TonyStarkPrime, Epignosis, MacDougall, sprityo, Dragon D. Luffy, Scotty, JaggedJimmyJay, Jackofhearts2005, insertnamehere
Total votes: 19
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Day 8]
This makes one of you look bad for sure. Either speedy was right to mistrust bob for his change of opinion or speedy knew Dwarf would flip bad and was being opportunistic. I’m inclined to believe the former.speedchuck wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:55 pmThis is not what you said earliercolonialbob wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:54 pmNothing, but i was hesitant to vote ID because I didn't like his fellow voters. I feel better about two of them so the train isn't as scary.speedchuck wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:53 pmWhat does that have to do with Kenway?colonialbob wrote: ↑Sun Mar 11, 2018 3:52 pm Ok I'm feeling better on kites/gwil so I'm leaning towards voting ID actually.
Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
reading dwarf’s ISO I want to lynch nutella next
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chance to crit kill? you killed colin and mac lol
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well quin had a crit kill too if he was a swordmaster but nutella could have done it too
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
I’m quite convinced cbob is scum now. I feel like I’m all but confirmed at this point so how bout throwing a lil protection my way [mention]spirityo[/mention]?
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
I'm not scum but yeah my voting the last two days doesn't look great, that's for sure.
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
Two questions about my scumminess: would I have engaged with ID in the thread like I did if we were teammates? And does most of my posting yesterday seem townie or mafia (ignoring my voting for a second)
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bob how’s your promotion? you haven’t talked about it at all i think. neither did dwarf. the same goes for speedchuck and sig too actually
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
That's a circular argument, since she couldn't have killed them unless she had already promoted. It doesn't prove whether she's bad or good.
Or DDL or somebody targeted by Dr White or yourself or potentially Sig (idk how his kill shows up).
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
i should have probably picked ranger too then 

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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
Sure gwil, if I’m not gonna die tonight I’ll consider protecting you, perhaps use my alternate power instead
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My upgrade just makes the chances of my kill increase, rather dull.
Speaking of which @gwilikers6 wanna let me fly? I think you're still above me.
Sprityo is scum reading me for no good reason, I could have been submitting kills and not no actions every night, there are still enough maybe scummy players I could've gotten away with it. He's just been tunneling on me since the early phases. We need to look at who was against ID, and who voted for me over him the first time around.
Speaking of which @gwilikers6 wanna let me fly? I think you're still above me.
Sprityo is scum reading me for no good reason, I could have been submitting kills and not no actions every night, there are still enough maybe scummy players I could've gotten away with it. He's just been tunneling on me since the early phases. We need to look at who was against ID, and who voted for me over him the first time around.




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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 6]
sprityo wrote: ↑Mon Mar 05, 2018 1:36 am Day 1 (No Lynch)
[6] nutella- MacDougall, gwilikers6, dunya, ColinIsCool, rundontwalk, JaggedJimmyJay
[2] Epignosis - Kites, Iron_Dwarf
[6] Quin - Dragon D. Luffy, nutella, colonialbob, Marmot, Kylemii, Long Con
[1] rabbit8 - sig
[1] ColinIsCool - Epignosis
[1] Kylemii - TonyStarkPrime
[1] TonyStarkPrime - Kenway
[1] dunya - DrWilgy
No vote: Dr. White, lapluie, Quin, rabbit8, sprityo
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Day 2
CBob - Kites, Tony, Marmot, Iron, Mac
Lap - Quin, Nutella, LC, Jimmy, CBob
*Dr White - Colin, Speed, RDW
Marmot - Sig
Speed - Wilgy
Iron - GWilly
Sig - Sprityo
nutella - Dr White
Jimmy - Epi
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Day 3
*[6] JaggedJimmyJay - Dragon D. Luffy, McDougall, Epignosis, sprityo, Marmot, DrWilgy
[6] Iron_Dwarf - colonialbob, speedchuck, nutella, gwilikers6, JaggedJimmyJay, Kylemii
[1] sig - Kenway
[1] DrWilgy - Long Con
[3] nutella - Iron_Dwarf, Quin, lapluie
[1] rundontwalk - Kites
[1] gwilikers6 - rundontwalk
No vote: sig (but a good effort)
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Day 4
*[9] DrWilgy - sig, Kites, Iron_Dwarf, Marmot, gwilikers6, Dragon D. Luffy, Quin, rundontwalk, Speedchuck
[6] Quin - lapluie, sprityo, nutella, Kylemii, colonialbob, Epignosis
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Day 5
*[8] Quin - Marmot, Nutella, Dragon D. Luffy, Sig, speedchuck, gwilikers6, Kylemii, Kites
[4] Iron_Dwarf - rundontwalk, sprityo, quin, Epignosis
[1] Nutella - lapluie
[1] Marmot - Iron_Dwarf
[1] Kenway - colonialbob
No vote: Kenway
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Day 6
*[6] lapluie - sprityo, nutella, rundontwalk, gwilkkers6, Epignosis,kylemii
[4] rundontwalk - colonialbob, Kites, sig, Dragon D. Luffy
[2] nutella - Iron_Dwarf, Speedchuck
Not voting: Kenway, lapluie
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Day 7
Rundontwalk (1): Iron_Dwarf
Colonialbob (3): Kites, rundontwalk, nutella
*IronDwarf (first life) (2): Kylemii, speedchuck
Sig (4):colonialbob, Kenway, Epignosis, sprityo
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Day 8
Kenway (1): Iron_Dwarf
*Iron_Dwarf (6): nutella, Kylemii, gwilikers6, speedchuck, Kites, colonialbob
Sig(1): Kenway
Unable to vote: Sprityo
blue is dead
red is mafia
green is people i feel fairly confident are town
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
Okay so ALL THREE of our confirmed lynched mafia voted nutella on Day 3
Day 3 DDL's color chart
looking at how the mafia team voted it's still not unheard of for them to have tried bussing nutella since Jay had 5 players voting him by the time Lap voted the 3rd vote on Nutella
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overall though, i think i was just being paranoid on nutella, epi got it in my head they were bad. and then kites said something about Gwil clearing them so i want to look at that again too and see if i agreeDragon D. Luffy wrote: ↑Mon Mar 05, 2018 1:08 pm Not a very informative day. Not a single vote on Quin or lapluie. This might become more informative later if one of ID/RDW/Nutella/Sig flip bad, otherwise, meh.
Quin and lapluie try to lynch Nutella, which means she has hands down the best vote tracking in the game, or she is being bussed like hell. 3-headed oroboros indeed, Kyle.
I am pinged by Sig's useless as shit vote near the end though, and though my memory is not 100% trustworthy, I don't recall thinking well of Sig in any of these exercises. I'll look at him more closely after I'm done here.
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
Another observation. Everyone gushes that speedunya is town. yet he's still alive
while every single other town/townish player has been killed

while every single other town/townish player has been killed

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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
nice result!! looks like I made the right choice, that was stressful. and I still feel iffy about bob considering the way he wanted to lynch kenway but hopped on the ID bandwagon when it became clear it was his only option
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
Point of order I hopped on the ID bandwagon exactly the same time you did (my vote change post linki'd on yours) at which time there were plenty of votes still unaccounted for. I'm not saying i should be cleared for my vote but i also didn't just hop over to put my name on the list, either.
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
I’m not, but Kites is and I think the same applies to archers? I woulda said hell no if I had been though lol.sig wrote: ↑Mon Mar 12, 2018 10:52 am My upgrade just makes the chances of my kill increase, rather dull.
Speaking of which @gwilikers6 wanna let me fly? I think you're still above me.
Sprityo is scum reading me for no good reason, I could have been submitting kills and not no actions every night, there are still enough maybe scummy players I could've gotten away with it. He's just been tunneling on me since the early phases. We need to look at who was against ID, and who voted for me over him the first time around.
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
I told y'all Iron Dwarf was Mafia
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
whos next?
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
You also said basically every person in the thread was mafia so

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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
You can't hit gold all the time, but when you do $$$$$colonialbob wrote: ↑Mon Mar 12, 2018 12:47 pmYou also said basically every person in the thread was mafia so![]()
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Re: Fire Emblem Draft Mafia [Night 8]
[mention]sprityo[/mention] are you on a horse
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